We are living in strange times - I agree Kim that the actual power of Kate Middleton is - in a scenario where the necessary offspring are now born and on their way , is going to be a target for the other's - Following the bizarre psy - op of the faux marriage of Harry with an actress - it is very easy to feel like something strange is being constructed to maintain the " Mystique " which after all , is all they ever are after -- Kind of like banks that print money when there is no collateral , narcissistic systems create the idea of reality when there is no reality to be seen . It is a world of make believe , into which they draw real property , real people , and real spirits into it , to be consumed and spit out the moment that reality demands that it be accounted for . Kate is actually too reality based , and her platform of wanting to take children's growth and development seriously is quite challenging to a narcissistic system , as it removes the need for the narcissistic paradigm , and allows the child to develop real skills and values that allow them to grow to become healthy adults . I remember all the behavior systems ( Breast feeding , natural sleep cycles , even natural bare feet or comfortable clothing ) was all seen as " Not " - and also , the introduction of sugar into the child's diet , with a serious focus and determination , when sugar was not at all good for them ... strange .
I really love the analogy of superiority and saviour complex. I think Dr Townsend and Cloud aluded to a similar view of codenpency. It certainly is a dance until one faces the mirror of their own actions and decisions and intentionally goes about to change it - chosing not to remain in arrogance. It takes a fair amount of pain to come to that point sometimes,, and some take it to their grave.
As to the middleton Kate - it's quite possible she has been removed as has a few of them. Needed until they are not. The change of guards in power has shifted and perhaps it is not the British in charge anymore... Just my thoughts - not necessarily accurate. And yes - I 100% agree with you about this world being somewhat of a war machine.. Possibly thats a distraction of peasant exhaustion to keep those in power just that. And as to Love - it seems that this world has gone a little mad. As to black eyed peas... the song is full symbology - Trauma programming. There is little that gets media coverage at present and if it does, its trauma programming - in my opinion.
There is a scene in the series called "Downton Abbey " there is a scene , perfectly played , where the nanny who is caring for infants and children is telling the baby to not talk to the other child , who is not pure born - and the element of these outlying encouragers and supporters of the system was something that for me was quite strange to experience in my real life . When strangers who have a financial tie to the narcissist will actually WORK to subvert the family system , and that includes maids that pretend to not speak english , and maintain private conversations in the Spanish language , that includes neighbors , that includes relatives , and that includes .... police and medical doctors . They collude to align with the one who they see as powerful - and that was very weird to experience and see first hand . I actually believe that the old nannies from the old regime would imprint somehow on the infant , to traumatise them and thus induce bonding for life . I know my mother in law was life long bonded with her servant / maid . Threats such as was depicted in the scene in Downton Abbey meant that the worker was then integrated with the power system via the insinuation and enforcement of this belief in the forming human child .
PS , there is a stage I call " Pre Verbal " where the child can understand what it is hearing , but cannot yet speak . This enforced muffling - via incapacity - is traumatic and will create a trauma bond .
We are living in strange times - I agree Kim that the actual power of Kate Middleton is - in a scenario where the necessary offspring are now born and on their way , is going to be a target for the other's - Following the bizarre psy - op of the faux marriage of Harry with an actress - it is very easy to feel like something strange is being constructed to maintain the " Mystique " which after all , is all they ever are after -- Kind of like banks that print money when there is no collateral , narcissistic systems create the idea of reality when there is no reality to be seen . It is a world of make believe , into which they draw real property , real people , and real spirits into it , to be consumed and spit out the moment that reality demands that it be accounted for . Kate is actually too reality based , and her platform of wanting to take children's growth and development seriously is quite challenging to a narcissistic system , as it removes the need for the narcissistic paradigm , and allows the child to develop real skills and values that allow them to grow to become healthy adults . I remember all the behavior systems ( Breast feeding , natural sleep cycles , even natural bare feet or comfortable clothing ) was all seen as " Not " - and also , the introduction of sugar into the child's diet , with a serious focus and determination , when sugar was not at all good for them ... strange .
And PS , keep up the incredibly excellent work , Kim and Steve , you are modern day heroes .
I really love the analogy of superiority and saviour complex. I think Dr Townsend and Cloud aluded to a similar view of codenpency. It certainly is a dance until one faces the mirror of their own actions and decisions and intentionally goes about to change it - chosing not to remain in arrogance. It takes a fair amount of pain to come to that point sometimes,, and some take it to their grave.
As to the middleton Kate - it's quite possible she has been removed as has a few of them. Needed until they are not. The change of guards in power has shifted and perhaps it is not the British in charge anymore... Just my thoughts - not necessarily accurate. And yes - I 100% agree with you about this world being somewhat of a war machine.. Possibly thats a distraction of peasant exhaustion to keep those in power just that. And as to Love - it seems that this world has gone a little mad. As to black eyed peas... the song is full symbology - Trauma programming. There is little that gets media coverage at present and if it does, its trauma programming - in my opinion.
There is a scene in the series called "Downton Abbey " there is a scene , perfectly played , where the nanny who is caring for infants and children is telling the baby to not talk to the other child , who is not pure born - and the element of these outlying encouragers and supporters of the system was something that for me was quite strange to experience in my real life . When strangers who have a financial tie to the narcissist will actually WORK to subvert the family system , and that includes maids that pretend to not speak english , and maintain private conversations in the Spanish language , that includes neighbors , that includes relatives , and that includes .... police and medical doctors . They collude to align with the one who they see as powerful - and that was very weird to experience and see first hand . I actually believe that the old nannies from the old regime would imprint somehow on the infant , to traumatise them and thus induce bonding for life . I know my mother in law was life long bonded with her servant / maid . Threats such as was depicted in the scene in Downton Abbey meant that the worker was then integrated with the power system via the insinuation and enforcement of this belief in the forming human child .
PS , there is a stage I call " Pre Verbal " where the child can understand what it is hearing , but cannot yet speak . This enforced muffling - via incapacity - is traumatic and will create a trauma bond .